Hahahahaha Kris yeahhhhh … full transparency: I don’t mind playing the other part, yet I would say it’s about an 80/20 split. It all depends on whether or not my partner (whoever she may be) says “okay, now it’s *my* turn.” ☺

Fuller transparency still: I can’t remember the last time I had an encounter that didn’t involve a level of play. Years ago, possibly more than a decade. So, up until the one written about here, I didn’t even know it was anything *unusual,* (she asked for it ahead of time by saying “I need a new Dom,” I googled what that entails and was surprised to find that it was just what I usually do) so I merely thought it was just par for the course.

(Probably way more info than you were looking for but here we are.)

Essayist and storyteller on life, liberty and the battle for happiness. Several million served. Words at Human Parts, Forge and PS I Love You. IG: heygorman

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