Actually, American Men Want to Date American Women

Matchmakers are poisoning the discourse on this platform, and we should do a cleanse and stop falling prey to their lead gen.

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{lights cigarette}

Look, usually, I don’t do this. And I’m gonna keep this brief and off the cuff because it doesn’t deserve a ton of my attention and frankly this doesn’t deserve a ton of yours.

Still, it does deserve some of yours, if you want to keep the discourse pure and you want to enjoy your reading experience here. I sure as hell do.

Maybe you’ve seen some posts on this platform with titles like — or exactly like — “Why American Men Don’t Want to Date American Women.”

Maybe you’ve seen a lot of them. Maybe you clicked on them. Maybe you read them. Maybe you got to the bottom and thought, “oh fuck, I’ve been had by some clever fucking lead gen.”

[Shout-out to you, Katya Koval, and your merry band of wannabes and lookalikes and comrades in arms.]

The general gist of the sub-subgenre reads thusly: “American women are too feminist, American men are too feminized, and it’s hurting the dating pool, and now American men are lonely and single or in unhappy marriages, and thus, American men need to…